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debbie nghiem
Friends said I have a lot patience &daring to follow my dream. I corrected them that I don't have a dream either a patience or even taking risk as daring.
First,dreaming is only wasting time with no action. Also, my patience is very short, because I don't like to seating around& waiting when my turn comes. Taking risk is a gamble on fate...just like rolling a dice and let it drop whichever... direction it landed, but you don't have any knowledge or knowing what you are doing.
As for me I only take chance&opportunity because I have vision to making things happen & enough knowledge how to get there. However, before I do anything, first I learn about the project or a product, then ask myself if I like it or not. Most importantly, I will give myself what is my time limit to achieve it. Finally, I'll plan and act on how to get to what I want. ..So which it means that I'm not a risk taker, a dreamer, or even a patience person, but I have a vision with mission, and a person who is willing to take chance & opportunity.
Therefore, I will strive hard to achieve what I want, & setting my time limit, because it will remind me learn when to quit if it doesn't go anywhere. Sometime, it's easy to have ideas, or said than done.. but once I experience in it, then I may find out if it fit for me or I lack of knowledge in some areas & i may need to improve on it or develop if time is permitted. Doing these processes, it will help me to maintain my happiness at all time and less disappointing ....because if it may not meant to be, so at least I know I did give it a chance & try my best. .In return, I may not reach the goal, but I know I'll gain friends,knowledge or things along the way...
Which it said ...Life's all about learning &gaining experiences.Meeting people or doing what I want to do at the moment isn't wasting time or dreaming person, or let fate decide because of patience&taking risk ... I only waste if I don't know how to leverage or learn from its to become a better person, and only dreamer when i have a knowledge&skill but doing nothing,then how can i meet my goal. Also, i don't like to take risk but I don't want to miss my chance or opportunity.... because I know I have the knowledge to elevating my chance. So who said that i'm a patience person, or have a big dream? lol..
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Debbie Nghiem
GG Connections-
Where the networking begins
Website-
http://ggconnections.com
Web Pages:
http:/myspace.com/devil6sj
http:/myspace.com/wwwanh2
http://www.modelmayhem.com/ggconnections
My quote:
Who am I and what am I? A normal person with many abnormal projects
lol...because I don't have a dream, I just do it.Dreaming will be losing time with no action when I have vision to make things happen .and..This is what I'm strongly belief.
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debbie nghiem
I love my country, I love my people but how come every time I deal with my people, then I never have a good feeling, everything went wrong, and no satisfaction?
None of the events that it made me feel happy or even fair enough to have the appreciation the work that I put in by a simple "thank you" word, but instead it always gave me a feeling like mistreated. ..
After those events, I always said to myself that I don't want to get involving with my people anymore.. Time has gone by different Viet people came and asked me to help...it was not I forgot the last experience... but in hope, different group... then different management.. Unfortunately, as a result.. it's still the same.....
Also, I know i'm a normal person, so I can feel disappointed or sad when people don't treat me right.. More, I believe as a good person, you are sensitive easy enough you can feel when people need your help so you don't mind to assist .. unlike a cold blood one.. ..Since giving person.. so you are easy to feel hurt as well....
However, thanks God.. that he gave me a strength so even when I feel sad or disappoint, I still can let it go soon, then forget the negative things.. and focus on a positive..and.. continue do my things to achieve my goal and comfort myself by telling me that my success has come closer.. On top of that, I'm not an easy to allow people to pull me down. Because of that strength, so that is why I can face those obstacles.
Despite these facts, I have not giving up on my people yet.. especially, when I got into those circumstance again .. Also, although, my people made me hesitation to help them the next time, but my heart ...I know there are still a lot other innocent people still need my help.. and that is why I was braving enough to deal with my Community for the last 10 years... but most people I know that already gave up long time ago..
Also, it was not that I don't learn my lesson, but my heart is truly to help the youths. Therefore, I sometimes had to swallow these treatments on my own. I know I won't be the only second generation afraid to deal with our own people.. Truly, I want to fix it.. so we can keep the meaning words about culture, love,forgive and care for each others.. and hopefully, one day, we will be a role model for our next generation. .instead of become a separate community.. or forget where you were coming from... I know this is only a dream.. because I can not control it.. even I have a vision, yes.. because it requires many people for devotion to work with each others...and forget about themselves, but believe in building a strong foundation &loving plus confident in each other minds.
Sometime, I don't know who to blame or get angry anymore. Is it because we don't have enough experience in leadership and team work? or we don't know how to share? , or is it because everyone has some jealousy type in their blood, or don't believe to help other to success ..?.or we can not keep the integrity? Also may be since we came from a poor country.. and we were fighting for the struggle at first .and fear for the lost again so we are worrying about our own interest only? or because of greed for money and fame?or lack of talent and confident? or just simply selfish? I know I can not answer these questions...However, one thing i know for sure at the end, everyone gets hurt and blame at each others, but no one really know the reason .. How can we fix this problem? should we stay away from each others for good?. . I'm sure Vietnamese people is not the only people run into this situation.. However, I know we are the worst one ..especially when we lack of communication too. Sadly, when I think about it.. but another day.. then another situation occurs and we all will learn one day how to treat each other better.. .. and that is will a day. the world will be peaceful and boring.. I guess.. . lol..
Debbie Nghiem
GG Connections-
Where the networking begins
Website-
http://ggconnections.com
Web Pages:
http:/myspace.com/devil6sj
http:/myspace.com/wwwanh2
http://www.modelmayhem.com/ggconnections
My quote:
Who am I and what am I? A normal person with many abnormal projects
lol...because I don't have a dream, I just do it.Dreaming will be losing time with no action when I have vision to make things happen .and..This is what I'm strongly belief.
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